Narcissists Mess With Your Mind

Narcissists mess with your mind and make you doubt your sanity.

One of the most debilitating aspects of narcissistic abuse is the fact that narcissists mess with your mind and make you doubt your own sanity. Victims of narcissistic abuse are constantly walking on eggshells but cannot quite put their finger on why. The constant gaslighting and all the lies and manipulation are draining and the … Read more

Resilience – the ability to bounce back after adversity


Questions related to resilience have interested psychologists for many years. Why is it that some children born in chaotic families go on to have successful lives while others fail to thrive? Where do narcissistic abuse survivors get the strength to “bounce back” and overcome the damage that narcissists have inflicted upon them? How do they … Read more

Flying Monkeys – the narcissist’s army of goons

Flying Monkeys - the narcissist's army of goons

The term Flying Monkeys is not a term used formally in psychology. It is a type of psychology slang used to describe people who act on behalf of a narcissist by mistreating the narcissist’s victim – a form of narcissistic abuse that goes by the name of abuse by proxy.