Resisting the Pull: Strategies for Managing Narcissist Hoovering
Narcissist hoovering is a term used to describe the tactic of drawing an individual back into an abusive relationship by exploiting their vulnerabilities.
This glossary is designed to provide clear explanations for various terms and concepts associated with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
We delve into a wide range of terms, from basic concepts such as ‘narcissism’ and ‘personality disorder,’ to more specific terms like ‘gaslighting’, and ‘narcissistic supply’.
Abuse by Proxy
Acute Stress Disorder
ACoNs
Adjustment Disorder
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
Alienation (after trauma)
Ambient Abuse
Antagonistic Narcissist
Child affected by Parental Relationship Distress (CAPRD)
Cluster A Personality Disorders
Cluster B Personality Disorders
Cluster C Personality Disorders
Codependent or codependency
Coercive Control
Communal Narcissist
Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD or C-PTSD)
Covert Narcissist
Dark Triad Personality Traits
Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder
Divide and Conquer
DoNF – Daughters of Narcissistic Fathers
DoNM – Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Fauxpology
Flashbacks
Flying Monkeys
Future Faking
Learned Helplessness
Linen Cupboard Metaphor
Love Bombing
Machiavellianism
Malignant Narcissist
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Narcissist Discard
Narcissist Hoovering
Narcissist Triangulation
Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome
Narcissistic Family
Narcissistic Family Scapegoat
Narcissistic Family Golden Child
Narcissistic FOG
Narcissistic Grooming
Narcissistic Injury
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
Narcissistic Personality Traits
Narcissistic Projection
Narcissistic Rage
Narcissistic Supply
Narcissistic Smear Campaign
Narcissistic Word Salad
Negative Self-Talk
No Contact
Parental Alienation
Parentification
Pathological Narcissism
Personality Disorder
Personality Trait Narcissism
Psychopathy
PTSD – Post-traumatic Stress Disorder
Reactive attachment disorder
Resilience
Somatic Narcissist
SoNF – Sons of Narcissistic Fathers
SoNM – Sons of Narcissistic Mothers
Narcissist hoovering is a term used to describe the tactic of drawing an individual back into an abusive relationship by exploiting their vulnerabilities.
Narcissists use love bombing as a manipulative tactic to ensnare their victims. It is important to recognize this behaviour and take steps to protect yourself from it.
Hypervigilance is a term used to describe the state of being constantly on high alert. If you are hypervigilant, you may be constantly scanning your environment for possible threats, even when there is no real danger present. This can be very taxing and lead to a number of negative consequences.
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Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a mental health condition that can occur after you have experienced or witnessed a traumatic event. The event may have been violent, such as an assault, or terrifying, such as a natural disaster or car accident.
Narcissistic supply is a term used to describe the positive reinforcement of a person’s ego, self-esteem, and sense of grandiosity. This reinforcement can come in many forms, from compliments given by others to praise for accomplishments.
Narcissistic rage is a reaction to real or perceived abandonment or rejection. It is often triggered by feelings of anger, humiliation, and entitlement.
A narcissistic injury can cause the narcissist to feel threatened, insecure and even paranoid. They may become overly defensive and aggressive.
The Linen Cupboard Metaphor is used to explain how traumatic memories can be improperly stored in the brains of people with PTSD/complex PTSD.
The signs of a narcissist smear campaign can vary depending on the situation and perpetrator. However one thing is certain: they are designed to damage your reputation or that of someone you care about.